What do you do to stay sane?

by on October 16, 2008 at 12:52 pm in Science | Permalink

Here’s a project asking people to list five things they do to stay sane.  I’m going to arbitrage and ask only for one thing you do to stay sane.  Please leave your answer in the comments.

I try to listen to beautiful music at least once a day, I don’t check my portfolio even in the best of times, I hug a loved one at least one more time than was expected (with adaptive expectations this is hard to sustain over time but I have my tricks), and also I avoid television advertisements as much as possible.  That’s four, you need only offer one.

Anonymous October 16, 2008 at 4:11 pm

If I read something annoying on a blog, I close the browser tab rather than click on “Post a Comment.”

Liza October 16, 2008 at 4:24 pm

During stressful patches I write down 5 things that surprise me in a good way each day. Small things like a cute baby seen on a train count too. This simple exercise makes me peek out of my shell of my stressed out self.

Wally October 16, 2008 at 4:25 pm

I loaf a lot and shirk inane duties such as writing memos at work or doing the dishes at home.

DJB October 16, 2008 at 4:31 pm

Jiu Jitsu

Foote October 16, 2008 at 4:44 pm

I second the reading of G.K chesterton, along with basically any christian theology…and lots of econ blogs as well.

kellen October 16, 2008 at 4:53 pm

Call someone I love(and hope they pick up), drink fresh coffee :) , or read MR.

Mr. Beefy October 16, 2008 at 5:07 pm

I go long on hemp! :) .

jorge Landivar October 16, 2008 at 5:18 pm

Who wants to stay sane?
Sane is for the booring.

Ganesh October 16, 2008 at 5:29 pm

I read your blog!

Let them eat Thomas Paine October 16, 2008 at 5:34 pm

In the mornings I go for a long row, in the afternoons I attend rowing practice, and in the evenings I study for your class. Although I’m becoming more fond of relieving stress in the evenings through drugs, drinking and watching either southpark or the life and times of Tim.

H Barca October 16, 2008 at 5:40 pm

I smoke a joint and masturbate, in that order. It seems longer.

John Goodman October 16, 2008 at 5:51 pm

I work the New York Times crossword puzzle every day. If I have to miss – say because I am in a foreign country and can’t access it by e-mail or I am unable to find an International Herald Tribune – the day is a real downer.

Steven Schmitt October 16, 2008 at 6:00 pm

Make someone laugh. Make myself laugh. Either one works, but the first is better than the second.

JC October 16, 2008 at 6:07 pm

Barbque. There is something hypnotic and primal about watching fire cook meat.

This morning I volunteered at an urban kindergarden class. I will probably not have kids myself, but playing and helping kids learn is refreshing.

Alan Gunn October 16, 2008 at 6:25 pm

I shoot paper targets full of holes. Then I clean and oil my guns, which takes about as much time as shooting them. In the winter, when it’s too cold for shooting to be fun, I build models.

Drinking coffee and watching the dog sleep are good, too.

Alex J. October 16, 2008 at 6:39 pm

I take the slow scenic route instead of the faster congested route.

R. Pointer October 16, 2008 at 7:23 pm

I used to run.

Teri October 16, 2008 at 7:30 pm

I gave up sanity in 2000 and embraced crazy. I know that doesn’t seem quite right but it helps. My blood pressure went down, I stopped yelling at the TV and the computer and I enjoy sex more. I then became addicted to WOW and the blogosphere. (I now enjoy sex as a nightelf as well) I also pretend to be a Stepford wife when my husband and kids are around. So that works

Anonymous October 16, 2008 at 7:39 pm

oh, also…screaming at the tv on saturday morning/afternoon while 18-21 year olds run into each other seems to help. my poor family

matt October 16, 2008 at 7:44 pm

I ride my skateboard. Falling on concrete keeps you grounded.

Jennie October 16, 2008 at 8:02 pm

Take my dog to the dog beach. Go hiking.

Michael Drake October 16, 2008 at 8:26 pm

NOTHING I DO SEEMS TO WORK!!!!!!!

Ah. I feel better now.

Elizabeth October 16, 2008 at 8:46 pm

I draw or paint something every day in a small sketchbook, and post the pictures on my blog.

The process is a daily chance to begin again, to reflect on something ordinary, to let go of words and play with line and color.

mk October 16, 2008 at 9:33 pm

Also:

1) Enough alone time.
2) Enough together time.
3) Listening to enough weird electronic music (Autechre is like a deep tissue massage for your brain; it’s slightly painful but feels great; consider the song “P.:NTIL”).
4) Listening to enough non-weird non-electronic music (M Ward’s “Transistor Radio” for one)

Cyrus October 16, 2008 at 9:55 pm

For evening sanity maintenance, any combination of exercise, alcohol, books, and old-school video games will do the trick. The weekend is just a matter of endurance: solitude until it becomes intolerable, then crowd-immersion until that becomes intolerable; rinse, repeat and pray for Monday.

Daniel Reeves October 16, 2008 at 10:07 pm

I’m not sure what I do to stay sane.

I guess my answer is, “have a good time.”

kady October 16, 2008 at 10:44 pm

I breathe. In and out. (Srsly, I tried just in for a while, but it didn’t work out so well.)

megsley October 16, 2008 at 10:55 pm

Crosswords, cocktails and cooking.

Pascale October 16, 2008 at 11:49 pm

Travel! (Can’t believe nobody has mentioned this)

Note: does not include domestic air travel in the US as that is bound to cause insanity.

Loony Toon October 17, 2008 at 12:25 am

Portfolio? I don’t have any portfolio.

My life is the exactly the same as before the stock market went crazy. Yes, some of us live like this ALL the time. Now you know how it feels.

Unfortunately, this means I don’t have extra cash to partake in any of the above activities everybody else does to stay sane.

MWAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Rob October 17, 2008 at 12:52 am

Get rid TV.
Stop reading The Economist” magazine, most importantly the Middle East section.
Play basketball.
Sex (solo as a fall back positions)
Eat at an ethic restaurant that allows you to transport out of current local.
Consider how lucky I am. If you are in the U.S., you are lucky.
Drink while shooting pool.
Do anything as long as it is with passion.

gobears October 17, 2008 at 12:57 am

I take classes from Brad DeLong.

jb October 17, 2008 at 2:42 am

Chat with strangers in online dating forums.

Robin October 17, 2008 at 3:12 am

watch the Daily Show
cook
cuddle the cat

… but I don’t think anything is actually working.

Seamus McCauley October 17, 2008 at 4:41 am

I continue to rely on the happy neurological accidents of birth and upbringing that have so far restricted me to the reasonably broad range of thoughts and behaviours that are social acceptable enough for those exhibiting them to be considered sane. (On a related note, I think anyone trying to take credit for their own ostensible sanity is just kidding themselves.)

Adam S October 17, 2008 at 7:46 am

Target shoot with a 1911.

Ted Craig October 17, 2008 at 8:42 am

Work through lists. The 1,001 Books are a gift from heaven for me.

ab pamintuan October 17, 2008 at 10:41 am

i cross stitch, keeping my mind concentrated on counted cross stitch blocks any other thougths

Kent Guida October 17, 2008 at 12:37 pm

Remember we are all going to die and one day the earth will be destroyed by natural forces beyond our control.

Mesbah October 17, 2008 at 1:43 pm

I think of stars, far far away.

Brutus October 17, 2008 at 5:26 pm

The gym or Chimay, depending on the time of day.

staffaction October 17, 2008 at 10:24 pm

play classical guitar

Eric H October 18, 2008 at 9:57 am

Remembering that the difference between me and Dali is that *I* know that *he* is mad.

Wendy October 19, 2008 at 10:45 am

singing
listening to good music
playing with my children
petting my cat
kissing my husband
scrapbooking
painting my toenails bright colors
Wintergreen lifesavers

I should make a list every day – it really does kind of put things in persepctive

John B. October 20, 2008 at 11:05 am

Two anti-depressants and an anti-ADD med do it for me.

David October 20, 2008 at 10:15 pm

I don’t read the newspapers.

Michael October 21, 2008 at 12:37 am

I find that taking a long drive with no exact destination, playing the radio and enjoying some tobacco greatly soothes me.

Rachel October 26, 2008 at 3:00 pm

I can in no way claim to a permanent grasp on sanity. However, getting rid of the TV has been an immense blessing.
I still watch the occasional quality show/doco/news/quiz on iplayer etc. Giving up the all too dominant presence of the TV which most of us have too willingly succumbed to over the years, has freed up time to talk, be with quietly, enjoy meals, cook and laugh with my partner in a much more meaningful way than before. I highly recommend a TV ban to all.

Anonymous November 30, 2008 at 8:23 pm

smoking herb and listening to quality tunes. breathing and meditating.

Dave Prychitko December 2, 2008 at 7:26 am

In addition to several other things, I take a sauna twice a week at home.

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